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The Writings
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The Whiplash Diaries
20 things Spain does differently (some will surprise you)

Sarita V.
Sep 48 min read


Spain - The Morning After (pt. 2)
Our first full day in Spain came with three thunderous booms and a floor that wouldn't hold still. Meanwhile, back in Minnesota, a very sick Devante was fighting a government website that refused to stay online — with Paco's flight just days away.

Sarita V.
Sep 17 min read


Spain - The Start (pt.1)
Every winter I ask myself the same question: "What am I doing here, where the air hurts my face?" This summer, we finally did something about it. Here's what it actually took to leave Minnesota for Spain — the visa that fell apart, the pet health certificate stuck in VEHCS purgatory, and the goodbye we said not knowing when we'd all be back together again.

Sarita V.
Aug 2612 min read


Who Are You?
Getting to know you, getting to know all about you... getting to like you, hoping you like me too!

Sarita V.
May 2, 20237 min read


What Will Be New this Year?
It's Going to be a Happy New Year, Right?

Sarita V.
Jan 3, 20235 min read


The Iron Range, a Love Story
A Story of Love for the Place I Will Always Call Home

Sarita V.
Jul 9, 202212 min read




And Just Like That, SATC is Back!
The universe may not always play fair, but at least it's got a hell of a sense of humor!

Sarita V.
Nov 24, 20218 min read


I Once Held You in My Arms... My Adoption Story Pt. 2
Broken heart, healing heart.

Sarita V.
Nov 18, 202118 min read




Now You're Just Somebody That I Used to Know.
Hello Friend. Goodbye, Friend.

Sarita V.
Sep 9, 202115 min read


Child Brides, Big Butts-Little Seats, Judgy Me, & Cats
The final blog in my Thrifting series!

Sarita V.
Dec 7, 20209 min read


That Hair Post, and the Shear Madness that Followed...
A few days ago, I posted about my frustration regarding a hairy moment on the love-it-yet-hate-it Facebook. The reactions I received...

Sarita V.
Sep 20, 20205 min read


That's Not a Knife- THIS is a Knife..."
Adventures in Thrifting & Thrifting Tips Episode 3: “That’s Not a Knife- THIS is a knife!!” Every now and then, we bring a child with us...

Sarita V.
Aug 10, 20208 min read


Hangry (han·gry | \ ˈhaŋ-grē) Informal: irritable or angry because of hunger
Adventures in Thrifting & Thrifting Tips Episode 2: “I’m just Hangry ok?” On a particularly beautiful Wednesday, our thrifting adventures...

Sarita V.
Aug 6, 20208 min read


That's a Little Spendy...
Adventures in Thrifting & Thrifting Tips Episode 1: “That’s a Little Spendy” So those of you who know me probably know that I...

Sarita V.
Aug 6, 202010 min read


"I Learned a Woman is Never an Old Woman." ~ Joni Mitchell
Mothers are People Too! No really, they are. As I get older, I am realizing something I wish someone had told me in my younger years, when I didn’t have the wherewithal to come up with this thought myself. I was much immersed in my own life, as young adults often are. My parents were just always THERE. That’s what they did. They did whatever it is they do in their home at the lake, and they were there when I needed to get a hold of them for something. They were always

Sarita V.
Mar 27, 20204 min read


Deliciousness- Written in Stone
Usually we go to the North Loop in Minneapolis for great food. This is only because we’ve become comfortable there. That’s the main...

Sarita V.
Oct 11, 20197 min read


Milk...Bar-None
Milk. The essence of life. The first thing we taste as infants. The first delightful surge of sweet goodness we experience within the...

Sarita V.
Aug 2, 20195 min read


So... You Want to Get a Dog...
So you want a dog? Read this first! Let me just preface by letting you know that I’m not a dog trainer. I’m not an expert in all things...

Sarita V.
Jul 19, 201911 min read


I'm Just Here for the Tacos
Street Tacos. They’re pretty much everything. They are the heart and soul of us brown people. So when a friend of mine suggested...

Sarita V.
Jun 26, 20194 min read


Whatta Man Whatta Man Whatta Mighty Good Man- Yes He Is!
Thank you, stepdads, thank you fathers, thank you dads, thank you Grandpas, thank you all you father figures out there who are stepping up for your children and/or the children who may not be biologically yours, but yours in your heart. Taking on a pre-existing family is a lot of work and takes so much patience and acceptance. I commend those of you who are doing this with an open heart and an open mind. I can only imagine how difficult it is to enter a family whose rules

Sarita V.
Mar 19, 20197 min read


...the Heck???
I’ve been secretly annoying myself and laughing at myself at the same time. Here’s how: I’ve started noticing that the older I get, the...

Sarita V.
Feb 13, 20198 min read


Touched By an Angel
‘Tis joy when you feel no pain. I’m telling you, if you suffer from any kind of chronic illness, or pain, even fatigue, there is nothing...

Sarita V.
Feb 1, 20199 min read


Thank Heaven for Little Girls
In case those of you who see me on the regular wonder why I’m dying my hair more often and keeping a bottle of red wine on hand, it’s...

Sarita V.
Jan 9, 20199 min read


"What's In the Box???" (actually, where is it?)
It’s a crazy, crazy world. Things happen. Well, that’s not the term most people use, including myself, but my parents are reading this,...

Sarita V.
Dec 20, 20186 min read


Do I Know You? Do You Think You Know Me?
“Wow! And this whole time I thought you were a b***h!” That is an actual thing someone said to me, sober, not in jest, but in a shocked...

Sarita V.
Dec 12, 20187 min read


Death Cab for Cutie... A Treacherous Lyft Ride!
I love to travel. My best friend (a.k.a. "the Wife") Kristen loves to travel. We try and go on a little trip together once a year or...

Sarita V.
Dec 11, 20186 min read


This Crazy Little Thing Called Love
Who do you love? That is an interesting question. Who do you love? Before you start listing family members, pets, friends... where do...

Sarita V.
Dec 5, 201810 min read


Shiver Me Tinder...😱🔥
Just looking at the blank page in front of me is enough to make me shake my head. There’s so much to say and I don’t know where to...

Sarita V.
Nov 28, 20188 min read


Not to Look a Gift Horse in the Mouth or Anything but...
Guys, this one’s for you. It’s that time of year when you have to come up with a gift for the significant other in your life. Maybe you...

Sarita V.
Nov 26, 20187 min read


40 & Fabulous
Do you any of you have teenagers? They are the best. And sometimes the worst. Hahaha! You know what I mean. I was thinking about...

Sarita V.
Nov 21, 20185 min read


"However Motherhood Comes to You... It's a Miracle." - My Adoption Story
A Story of the Greatest Love on Earth

Sarita V.
Nov 20, 201820 min read


Under the Sea...🦐
National Seafood month is in October. So we’re a little late to the party (rebels that we are,) but friends let me tell you, there’s...

Sarita V.
Nov 18, 20185 min read


Deckles and Peppers and Ramen- Oh My!
If you find yourself in the Cities, (Out of Staters, this is what we Minnesotans call Minneapolis/St. Paul) you absolutely need to pay a...

Sarita V.
Nov 16, 20184 min read


Lather, Rinse, Repeat. (Social Media, that is.)
Unfriended. Unfollowed. Unsubscribed. These are words we are familiar with. When it happens to us, it brings out a response that...

Sarita V.
Nov 14, 20183 min read


To Tree or Not to Tree...That is the Question
It’s fast approaching that Most Wonderful Time of the Year, and this year I lost the argument with myself and opted to put my tree up early. I’ve never put it up before Thanksgiving, so this is a first for me! I am going to go out on a limb here (lol) and say that the reason for the early season is how much more tuned into politics I have been in 2018. It’s left me with a bit of a desperate need for that peaceful, hot chocolate, cozy, deck the halls type of cheer in my lif

Sarita V.
Nov 14, 20184 min read


Country Girl or City Girl. Pick a Side?😟
Good Morning Friends. I debated blogging about this because I’m pretty non-confrontational and I didn’t want to stir up a dust storm. ...

Sarita V.
Nov 13, 20183 min read


Well, We Were Gonna Do Salad but...🤷🏽♀️
So today was definitely a treat! Thankfully the bestie had the day off, so we were able to go and have lunch at one of our favorite...

Sarita V.
Nov 12, 20182 min read


Way Up North Where There's Ice & Snow...
My fellow Minnesotans! I'm going to discuss a little area we like to call Ely. Yes, Ely, Minnesota. For those of you out of state or...

Sarita V.
Nov 11, 20184 min read


To Stay at Home, or Not...That is the Question
One thing I’ve noticed since I’ve been a stay at home/work from home person, is that I absolutely love the escape from the noise of a...

Sarita V.
Nov 11, 20185 min read


Sometimes I Give In...
Ok so those are images from Pinterest. My bacon actually DOES look like that, but... it's bacon so we ate it before I thought of taking...

Sarita V.
Nov 10, 20182 min read


Dreams & Friends
Whether you do coffee mornings, wine nights or play dates, what do you chat about with your closest friends? Might I suggest.... your...

Sarita V.
Nov 9, 20185 min read
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